Wanting a person who doesn't want you. that imbalance. When one cares more than the other, the one who cares more gets fucked. So if I care more than her, she is always separate, safe. I am always afraid. So much has been written, said, and sung about it.

When one loves one more.
When I love you more.
I want more from you
Than you are willing to give.

I still don't really know how to deal with that.

So hard to figure out what you think, let alone others. you can never really figure out enough about love to really feel safe interacting with that person.